Dealing with a jealous boyfriend is rather difficult.
And it’s actually a lot easier to just walk away from the
relationship in the first place, instead of constantly having to remind
him how much you love him.
But on the other hand, you may be misinterpreting his insecurity as jealousy.
And it’s not easy to tell the difference.
If your boyfriend’s recently started to get quite jealous and
possessive, or if you’re still in a new relationship and want to stop
him from becoming jealous over time, use these ten tips to turn him from
a jealous boyfriend to a reassured and happy one.
How to handle a jealous boyfriend
If you have a boyfriend who is jealous, and want to let him know that
you really do love him and stop him from being so jealous, here’s all
you need to know.
#10 Let him know that you love him
If you’re dating a happy guy who’s got a lot of friends and is quite
popular, he may only be jealous because the relationship is still young
or he’s still insecure about your feelings for him. If you ever find
your boyfriend questioning your interest in other guys or getting
annoyed by your guy friends, perhaps you just need to let your jealous
boyfriend know that you love him and no one else. And let him know that
even if you do have a conversation with a male friend, it’s really not a
setting for a romantic affair.
#9 Give him more attention around your guy friends
Men are competitive, be it in a game or in love. If you’re dating a
guy who’s jealous of your friends, it may just be his insecurity
showing. If you do love him, the next time he’s with you and your male
friends, give him more attention that you give to any other guy and he
will love you for it. And he’ll definitely feel good about the
relationship and be reassured too.
#8 Include him in the conversation as your savior
Men have a protective instinct, and so does your guy. Your jealous
boyfriend may feel threatened by other guys taking to you or flirting
with you and may feel uncomfortable about it. The next time a friend of
yours tries to flirt with you or sweet talks with you when you’re with
your boyfriend, pull your boyfriend closer by his arm in jest, and
dramatically tell him you need “help with an annoying guy” or “his
assistance in proving a point to your friend who’s bugging you.” By
involving him when someone’s flirting with you, it would definitely
reassure your jealous boyfriend and stop him from wondering if there’s
something sneaky going on behind his back.
#7 Involve him in your social activities
Jealous boyfriends can create epic fantasies and illusions in their
mind when they’re feeling threatened. Every time you go out with your
guy friends, he may end up brooding about what you’re doing, whom you’re
flirting with or who’s pawing you. To make him feel better and stop
spinning flirty tales in his head, try to involve him in your social
activities for a few months. Let him realize by himself that you’re not
on a flirting spree every time you go out with your own friends.
#6 Have him in your arms
Jealous boyfriends are easily unsettled with the simplest scenarios.
And it all starts and ends with you talking to other guys. It’s really
annoying, but if you do want to help him lose the jealous streak, have
him in your arms at all times when you’re hanging out with a group of
friends. By “showing him off” when you’re around male friends, you’re be
able to help him trust you and feel better, especially if you’re
constantly giving him your attention.
#5 Call him often when you’re out with friends
Jealous boyfriends suck! It’s a fact. But at times, by reassuring a
jealous boyfriend that he has no reason to worry, you may be able to
chisel out the perfect boyfriend in him. So as painful as it can seem,
spend a couple of months trying these tips. Your boyfriend may feel
rather insecure and jealous when you go out with your friends and have a
nice time. The only thing that goes on in his head would be, “does she
have more fun with her friends than she does with me?” Perhaps it’s his
insecurity or his fear of you having a better time with some other guy.
But whatever the reason may be, one of the best ways to comfort his
pacing jealous heart would be to call him often when you go out. Call
him every now and then and have a quiet conversation without getting
disturbed by your friends’ giggles (which can annoy him further). It’ll
make him realize how much you love him.
#4 Indulge in a bit of PDA with him
Indulging in public display of affection with your jealous boyfriend
may make him uncomfortable, but he would still love it. By getting
cuddly in public, either by holding his hands or kissing his cheek,
you’re willing to let the world know that both of you are a couple. And
that can be a huge reassurance for a jealous guy who’s always looking
for little reasons to wonder if you really do love him.
#3 Tease him when you’re with your girlfriends
Help your antisocial jealous boyfriend understand that a bit of fun
flirting and teasing is all acceptable and harmless between friends and
the opposite sex. Get your girlfriends to tease him a bit and flirt with
him. It’s a bold move, but with the confidence of a few trusted
girlfriends of yours, it’s a good way to make him understand how
harmless a bit of flirting can be. So the next time he sees your male
friends pulling your leg, he may take it in a lighten vein.
#2 Reassure him instead of getting angry
Let’s face it, jealous guys are not the best boyfriends to have. But
in almost all cases, a guy doesn’t become jealous unless he feels
insecure or assumes you’re not really in love with him. Jealousy is
actually a plea for help, and not a way to show off his domination over
you. So if you ever find him sulking or sitting in corner and huffing
and puffing, don’t get upset or angry with him. Instead, hold his face
in your palms and remind him about how much you love him. You’ll see a
big toothy grin popping out of his face in no time!
#1 Don’t make these moves obvious
Being a jealous boyfriend is not something to be proud of. Your
boyfriend knows that. But sometimes, it’s inevitable. So when you’re
trying these moves, don’t let him know about it. It would insult him and
make him feel worse. And he may close up further in his shell and would
stop believing you, no matter what you do. Should you date a jealous
boyfriend? Now all said and done, these ten steps on helping your
jealous boyfriend will definitely work like a charm. But if it doesn’t,
there’s probably a bigger reason for his jealous ways and there’s
nothing more you can do to help him have a normal life.
So if these steps don’t work, we advise you to dump his sorry ass and
walk out before he tries to keep you locked in a cage to make himself
feel better. And if your guy ever uses physical force or stops you from
being with your friends or meeting them, walk right out of his life and
don’t even bother answering his calls.
Use these ten effective ways on changing your jealous boyfriend into a
happy lover and see the difference. It definitely won’t fail, well,
unless you’re dating a guy who’s messed in the head! –
LovePanky
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