Nollywood actress ,Susan Peters has said there is no such thing like 'Mr Right".
"There is nothing like Mr. Right, you will wait forever if you are looking for that. No one is perfect, just deal and learn to adjust to ones flaws. Human beings just like to deceive themselves. I am waiting for a rich guy or I’m waiting for a born again Christian,"the actress who recently clocked 35 told Naijapals
"There is no such thing, only few people have the true meaning of fear of God. As each day passes, we offend God with our thoughts and words, and God still forgives. Those who claim Mr. Right are the ones who end up betraying. For the records, everyone’s father trained them to the level they are, so both parties should be able to train each other if they are willing to learn. I too have my flaws but a man who truly loves me and not my person will be able to deal with it," she added .
On when she is getting married:
"Getting married is not a title, but when the right time comes, I will be celebrated and so will every other person be too, "she said
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Thursday, July 2, 2015
If You Sleep With a Woman That Used to Be a Man Does That Make You Gay? (Discussion)
This is popular transgender Shaun Brooks and her boyfriend Bless. Shaun used to be a man...but she's now living as a woman and it looks like she removed her eggplant and now has a honeypot ... does that make Bless straight? Or he's still a homosexual? Please share your thoughts.
Kim Kardashian Stuns Very Hard On The Latest Cover Of Rolling Stones Magazine
In an interview with the magazine, the 34-year-old ‘Keeping Up With the Kardashian’ star dished on a number of issues, including her obese brother Rob Kardashian, her infamous sex tape and catching then Bruce Jenner wearing women’s clothes for the first time.
On catching then Bruce Jenner (now Caitlyn) in female outfit:
“I was shaking [when I walked in on Bruce wearing women’s clothes for the first time.] I didn’t know if I’d just found out his deepest, darkest secret, and he was going to come after me. I wasn’t sure if Bruce was going to be comfortable walking me down the aisle. He had just had his trachea shaved, so I knew something was going on. [Kanye] obviously moves to his own drum. He lives his life the way he wants, a really authentic life, and he was like, ‘If you can’t be authentic and you can’t live your life, what do you have?”
On her brother Rob Kardashian:
“It’s not that mysterious, what’s happening with Rob. He has gained weight. He feels uncomfortable being on the show, and that’s OK. Do I think he smokes weed, drinks beer, hangs out and plays video games with his friends all day long? Yes.”
On who leaked her sex tape:
“We’re in major confidentiality, so I can’t talk about it.”
On the whole world seeing her nakedness:
“I don’t really think about it. I thought about it for a long time. But when I get over something, I get over it.”
On how she is portrayed in the media:
“I believe that I am so much smarter than I’m portrayed”
In My 25 Years As A Prostitute, I've Been Shot 5 Times, Stabbed 13 Times - Woman Tells Tale Of Abuse
Born in 1962 on the West Side of Chicago, Brenda lost her mother, who was 16 at the time, when she was six months old. She never really knew the cause of death because her grandmother, ‘who drank more than most’, said she died of natural causes –something Brenda finds hard to believe.
“It was my grandmother who took care of me,” she said. According to Brenda, she did everything a sweet grandmother would do, but the problem was her drinking. When she brought her drinking partners home and passed out, the men would molest Brenda.
“It started when I was four or five years old and it became a regular occurrence”, she recounted. Although she believes her grandmother was unaware.
Because her grandmother wasn’t always at home because of work, she spent a significant part of the day at home, and the molesters too advantage of this.
The transition came one day, when she asked her grandmother about the women would stand on the street looking glamorous outside their house.
“Those women take their panties off and men give them money,” her grandmother had said, and since men were already doing that to her, it didn’t seem like a very bad idea.
Because of the psychological effects of molestation, it became hard for her to say ‘no’ and according to her, little boys could ‘basically have their way’ if they treated her nicely.
A young Brenda
And so at 14, she had two baby girls from boys in the community. That was when her troubles began as grandmother began demanding money for the kids feeding.
One Good Friday evening, in front of the Mark Twain Hotel, wearing a $3.99 dress, cheap plastic shoes, and some orange lipstick to make her look older, she began the 25-year journey.
She cried through it all, but she had to do it.
“They knew I was young and it was almost as if they were excited about it,” she said about the five men who had her that night. She returned home with $400 and gave most of it to her grandmother who didn’t seem to care where it came from. It happened again the next weekend but the third weekend was not in any way rosy.
Some guys approached with a gun and kidnapped her in the trunk of car because according to her, she was ‘unrepresented on the street’. The rest of the night began with them taking turns to rape her on a cornfield and then taking her to a hotel room and locking her in a closet.
Leaving her in the closet, they starved her and agreed to only let her out if she worked for them. It was a spirit breaking tactic.
For the next six months, she worked for them, unable to go home, pimped to several men, and when she tried to escape, she paid the price. It came with loads of physical abuse, but that was the easy part, the mental abuse was the real thing.
“The things they would say that would just stick and which you could never get from under,” Brenda said.
Pimps according to her, are very good at torture and manipulation. They’d promise to treat her better if she behaved but then the good part they promise never really came.
There is nothing glamorous or elegant about prostitution, she explained.
“A prostitute might sleep with five strangers a day. Across a year, that's more than 1,800 men she's having sexual intercourse or oral sex with. These are not relationships, no-one's bringing me any flowers here, trust me on that. They're using my body like a toilet.”
“I've been shot five times, stabbed 13 times. I don't know why those men attacked me, all I know is that society made it comfortable for them to do so,” she said about violent customers who brought their anger and mental illnesses to prostitutes, knowing fully well they couldn’t go to the police.
It was about 14 or 15 years before she did drugs.
“After you've turned as many tricks as you can, after you've been strangled, after someone's put a knife to your throat or someone's put a pillow over your head, you need something to put a bit of courage in your system,” she said.
In all her 25 years as a prostitute, she didn’t see a way out until April 1, 1997, a nearly 40-year-old woman.
A customer had thrown her out of his car, and as her dress got caught, he dragged her six blocks, with the ground eating away at her skin and face.
“I went to the County Hospital in Chicago and they immediately took me to the emergency room,” she said. “Because of the condition I was in, they called in a police officer, who looked me over and said: "Oh I know her. She's just a hooker. She probably beat some guy and took his money and got what she deserved." And I could hear the nurse laughing along with him. They pushed me out into the waiting room as if I wasn't worth anything, as if I didn't deserve the services of the emergency room after all.”
And in those moments, while she waited for someone to attend to her injuries, she thought deeply about her life for the first time in 25 years. She remembered looking up and saying to God, "These people don't care about me. Could you please help me?"
Help came quickly, as a doctor took care of her and directed her to the hospital’s social services office. Contrary to her previous understanding of how mean that office could be, they gave her a bus pass to a place called Genesis House. It was there that she found a hero and mentor in the woman who run the place, Edwina Gateley.
At the house, all her needs were taken care of, and she stayed there for almost two years, healing body and soul.
After three years of healing and abstinence, she met an ‘extraordinary man’. “I was very picky –he likes to joke that I asked him more questions than the parole board”, she said on BBC.
She began volunteering with sex workers and helping a university researcher with her fieldwork. But in 2008, together with Stephanie Daniels-Wilson, Brenda Myers-Powell founded the Dreamcatcher Foundation. A dreamcatcher, according to Brenda, is a Native American object you hang near a child’s cot to chase away nightmares. And that's what the foundation is about, chasing away those bad things that happen to young girls and women.
A recent documentary film Dreamcatcher, directed by Kim Longinotto, showed what their work was about –meeting women who are still working on the street and making them know, “there is a way out, we’re ready to help you when you’re ready to be helped”.
They also go to after-school clubs with young girls who are exactly as she was in the 1970s. “I can tell as soon as I meet a girl if she is in danger, but there is no fixed pattern. You might have one girl who's quiet and introverted and doesn't make eye contact. Then there might be another who's loud and obnoxious and always getting in trouble. They're both suffering abuse at home but they're dealing with it in different ways - the only thing they have in common is that they are not going to talk about it,” she said.
Brenda started the Dreamcatcher foundation with Stephanie Daniels-Wilson
So far, 13 of the girls they’ve reached out to have graduated from high school and are now college. She said, “They came to us 11, 12, 13 years old, totally damaged. And now they're reaching for the stars”.
At 58, she is currently married to the extraordinary man she met 11 years ago who says he looks into her eyes and sees a girl with a pretty smile that he wanted to be a part of his life.
Currently, those two little girls she had before she was 14 grew up to be successful young ladies. One is a doctor, while the other works in criminal justice. Brenda and her husband have adopted her nephew.
She rounded off with the words, “There is life –and I’m not talking about a little bit of life. There is a lot of life.”
I Killed My Lover For N600 – 20-Year-Old Homosexual Tells Court
A 20-year-old man, Anthony Toms, yesterday told an Ebute- Metta Magistrates’ Court, Lagos that he recruited four men to assist him in beating his male lover to death. Toms told the court presided over by Mr Olanrewaju Olatunji that the victim owed him N600, which he refused to pay.
The accused, however, said it was not his intention to beat his 32-year-old lover, Sonye Chukwudi, to death. Other defendants are Godwin Francis, 25, Michael Iyang, 21, Evidence David, 23, and Etuk Tony.
The incident occurred on June 21, around 9:30pm at Ransom Kuti Garden, Anthony Village, Lagos. Investigators said that Toms initiated Chukwudi’s murder by ordering his friends to tie his hands and legs, and then proceeded to beat him. Chukwudi lost consciousness and never recov-ered. Police said that Toms killed Chukwudi because he refused to repay him a N600 debt. The money was for the sales of garden flowers Toms sold to the deceased.
Toms pleaded guilty to the charges. He said: “I met Chukwudi a few years back. He lured me into homosexualism. I told him that I’m a gardener. He told me he would need me to get some flowers for him. I did, but he did not pay me the remaining money.
“I repeatedly asked him, but he refused to pay me. I thought if I threatened him, he would pay me. I called him on the fateful day and asked him to meet me at Ikeja. We both headed to Anthony. On getting to our destination, I asked him for my money. He said he did not have money on him. I called my friends.” Toms said that his four friends assisted him in tying up his lover. They tied his hands and legs.
The idea was to beat him up and collect any money found on him. They did and found N4,750 on him. They also found a Symbian phone. Toms said: “We noticed he had fainted and dragged him back to his car. We waited for a while, but he did not recover.
We took a second look at him and discovered that he was dead. We abandoned him. Police later came to arrest us. We did not know how the police got information that we killed him.” Toms’ cronies all denied knowing the late Chukwudi.
They explained that they had never set eyes on the deceased until the day Toms came, seeking their help. They added that Toms told them that he needed their help in dealing with the deceased. Toms also told them that Chukwudi refused to pay for services rendered. Olatunji adjourned the case till July 31
Cheat On Your Girlfriends Not On Your Workouts – Qdot
Lol!! Qdot also want 6packs.
He posted the photo above on his Instagram page and captioned it “Cheat on your girlfriends not on your workouts”
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