Is this the year that I will officially be awarded counsellor of the year?
The way things are going and with the increased problems in
relationships that I have settled this January (12 successfully
relationships) alone is a giving a big scare and I fear an award is
inevitable for me.
One of these cases is that of Esther and
Henry (not real name). They met, started as friends, weeks later Henry
talked to her about how he felt for her which she turned down. After
much persuasion (3 months) Esther agreed to date him. As usual sex was
involved. Esther got pregnant, she was so engrossed with Henry that she
wanted to keep the pregnancy. Henry, a final year student told her he
wasnt ready that they should abort it. This she later agreed and removed
the pregnancy.
4 weeks after the abortion Henry's love for her
diminished and ran cold. He got another girlfriend and plainly told her
it was over. She was pained deep within her soul, she wasnt ready to
give up her position for another lady. She still visits Henry hoping He
would change but things got worse with each passing day. Even seeing the
other lady with him still doesnt deter her to get the message.
I
really dont understand. Is Esther foolish? Is she having a fragile heart
to let go of situation beyond her control? Do you think her her
persistence may eventually pay off? Do you think she deserve a better
man?
My dear people, what advice can you proffer for this lady?
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